Have you ever wondered what goes through a man’s mind so thoroughly that he chooses to ignore his wife and pursue another woman? Shall we go into this vile story of human emotions and frail egos?
1. A Deficit of Recognition
Just picture yourself toiling away, going to great lengths to console your partner, only to be met with a lifeless, icy stare. Yes, exactly—not even a token of gratitude. Consistently expressing thankfulness can work as a relationship’s glue. In the absence of this, your spouse resembles a deflated balloon—you know, the one that got caught in the corner during your child’s birthday celebration and gradually lost air until it was a wrinkled, depressing mess. It won’t be long until a man leaves to get a standing ovation somewhere if he feels unneeded and underappreciated at home.
2. Insufficient Emotional Closeness
There should be more to relationships than high fives at the dinner table and Netflix marathons. Let’s face it, if there’s not a soul-deep connection, you’re only housemates. Meaningful relationships are built on emotional closeness. The end is near when hubby begins to feel aloof. He might go off and find someone who truly listens to his conspiracy theories about what’s really in toothpaste and laughs at his awful dad jokes.
3. Insufficient Sexual Intimacy
Without further ado, intimacy is essential. People, we’re talking about $̔x! It works wonders to keep a marriage together. In the absence of it, the spouse’s thoughts shift to “Consider Alternatives.” The only person he will be searching for is the one who looks at him with the same joy a child feels when they find a $20 bill on the sidewalk. When a man loses the sexual connection, he may begin to feel like a prop in his own narrative. And, God forbid, he might assign himself to the main role in someone else’s screenplay in order to cover that gap.
4. Your Spouse Finds the Married Life Boring
Do you recall the exuberant honeymoon phase when you were both eager to get to know one other’s peculiarities? After a few years of the same old slog, suddenly Life carries on. It becomes boring. It sounds like the phrase “til death do us part” has an incredibly long expiration date. Your spouse may decide it’s time to “upgrade” to a shinier, more exciting model when snoozeville takes control. The simple fact of the matter is that your spouse is likely to lose you if he has lost that loving feeling.
It’s a fact that relationships require effort. But dealing with these problems is essential to survival, not just usefulness. If you don’t confront them head-on, you can end up without a husband. I tell you not to become just another cautionary story.
